Option 2:
I once got a passive aggressive note my freshman year of college when my roommate left a note on my desk saying “make sure to take the trash” when we were all moving out. I had to stay a day extra because my flight was the following day and buddy had the audacity to leave a note when I was taking a final and he was packing up to leave. Let’s just say we haven’t talked since and I don’t plan on talking to him again. I rather have someone come up to me and personally tell me what’s upsetting him or her so much instead of leaving pass agg notes.